Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Manifesting Dreams - Don't Worry About the HOW


DARICE JOHNSTON:Efficiency Training & Life Coaching for the Entrepreneur


What does "manifesting your desires" mean to you - personally ... professionally?

People come to me as an efficiency coach so they can get new results, they are looking to manifest different result - ultimately manifestation hinges on who you are wanting to become.  It must come from the point of BE-ing not the point of DO-ing.  People know what they need to do but they don't always do it.  It’s important to understand that it’s NOT a lack of action that's the problem its who they are BEING that is the problem.

There is action that feels like it’s a big effort or there is Inspired Action.  Most people are in a state of lack and then decide they need to make changes.  But we can't be successful when making change from a state of lack.  When we take action from a state of inspiration, possibility and excitement that is when success is attainable.  So I focus my efforts with my clients to get them into a state of inspiration, excitement.  I don't do "accountability coaching" because its frequently given and taken in a state of Do-ing.  So I work to re-frame clients' thinking into a state of BE-ing.

Once the Be-ing is in place then they are ready to take inspired action and greater success results.

When you work with coaching clients, how do manifesting techniques play into the sessions?  How do you help people get into sate of BE-ing?

Through shifting feelings.  There are only 2 visceral feelings - one feels good, one bad. The Law of Attraction is the basis for all of my coaching.  If you take action from a place of felling good then more of same will come - I always go back to the question of "what do you want?" and how does that feel to have what you want?  Once you can really FEEL the good of having what you really want then that's the place from which to launch into action.

Shifting into a new space of positive feeling - whatever they are feeling - they must take ownership of where they are now & that they have manifested their current state.  Then we focus on their belief that they are capable of turning things around.

I attribute my style of coaching to Abraham Hicks & Michael Bernard Beckwith.  I study Universal Law to help my clients.  Their current state of affairs has nothing to do with the potential of what they can create.  

What's the single most important thing anyone can do to manifest what they want? 

Be clear about what is wanted and trust that they do NOT need to be clear about the HOW.  Stay focused on elevating your feelings to be continuously good.

Truth is in a realm of its own - Meaning, it can't be altered, changed or touched, but beliefs CAN be altered.  That's how you know the difference - Beliefs are simply thoughts we keep telling our selves - you thought it and then looked for the evidence of it to support it.  If one wants to change a belief then go look for the evidence of the correctness of the new belief.

Our beliefs are the greatest road blocks to achieving our greatest desires.  They can also be the greatest propellant to what we want to achieve.

I live with tear filled gratitude to be doing this work.  The more I see my clients excel the more blessed I am.  Seeing people move from the perspective of I have to effort my way through life to realizing life is easy.  

I'm living my heart-felt calling and I get as much if not more back from working with my clients.  

To learn more about Darice go to http://www.daricejohnston.com/




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